I knew about you bringing Susan home. It wouldn’t have been impossible to gather this evidence while working.”
After I revealed everything, John was speechless and seemed quite downcast even over the phone. Then he pleaded with me, “Please don’t tell Susan I’m divorced.” “Why would I?
There’s no such fact to tell.” “Really? Thank you.” “Are you misunderstanding something? When did you become divorced?”
“That fake divorce paper is invalid, remember?
So legally, you’re still my husband, not divorced.” “What?” “So since you committed adultery while legally still my husband, Susan needs to pay compensation.” I sent the demand for reparation to her house yesterday by express delivery. “She didn’t know you were married, right?” “Then I can’t withdraw the claim at this point.” I already knew Susan believed John was single. But I deliberately sent the reparation demand.
“Susan hasn’t contacted me yet.” “So maybe she hasn’t received the letter.” “It should arrive soon.”
“Should you be on the phone with me when you also have to deal with the police? You’re busy?” “I’ll ignore the police. I won’t be arrested.
I’m going to Susan’s house now to get the letter back before she or her family can accept it.” He then hung up. He probably went straight to Susan’s house to wait for the postman at the front door. I knew it would be futile because the letter was sent as registered mail to Susan only.
Even if he waited for the postman, he couldn’t receive it. A few hours later, a dispirited John called me. According to him, there was an incident when the postman arrived.
“Finally, I’ll take that envelope.” “Who are you? You don’t live here, right?” “I’m practically a resident here since I’m married. I have the right to receive the mail.” “I see, but I can’t give you this envelope.
It’s registered mail for Susan only.” “What? Give it to me.” “Absolutely not. If you’re so eager, ask Susan for permission.”
“What’s going on here?” “Oh, John, what’s all this noise?
What’s happening?” “Ah, Susan, this is registered mail for you. This man insisted on taking it. Sorry for the disturbance.
Now, I’ll be on my way.” “What’s this? A demand for reparation. John, you were married.
What’s going on here?”
“Sorry, it’s just she’s an ex-wife from a long time ago. I was embarrassed to say I’m divorced. I’m sorry for keeping it secret.” “But it’s strange, isn’t it?
We haven’t been dating long, and a demand for reparation? If you were divorced before we started dating, there shouldn’t be any problem, right?”
“Well, my ex-wife is crazy. Maybe she’s demanding reparation out of spite because I got married.” That was the excuse he gave, but such a lie was quickly exposed.
The envelope included a letter I wrote along with my contact information. So, Susan called me directly. In that call, I told her about the affair, the invalid divorce, and that they had a wedding ceremony while he was still married to me.
Although they had a wedding ceremony, they hadn’t submitted the marriage registration yet. John wanted to submit it on April Fools’ Day, so it was still pending. He probably delayed submitting the marriage registration due to uncertainty about whether the divorce was finalized.
After being exposed, John fled from Susan’s house and shamelessly contacted me again. I still had something to tell him, so we agreed to meet at a nearby cafe. As soon as I arrived, John said, “Karen, please withdraw the reparation claim.
Let’s pretend we’ve been separated for a long time and officially divorced now. I can apologize to Susan for being secretly divorced and maybe cover it up.”
“You think I’m desperate to stay married to you. I was going to file for divorce anyway, but since you cheated, you’ll pay reparation.” “Just trying to extort money from me, huh?
Typical of the poor. You have such a poor heart.” “You’re talking nonsense. Depending on my answer, everything can change.”
“There’s still an option where we don’t divorce.
If I say no, you can’t reject it. Meaning you can’t marry Susan, and your marital status will be exposed.” “Fine, I’ll pay the reparation. Just divorce me now.
Sign here.” “Then, about property division.” “Property division? How much more do you want to take from me? Reparation should be enough.”
“Remember, we agreed to waive property division, right?
So, let’s make it official.” “All right. You’re not as bad as I thought. Thank you.” We then went to a public notary, made a public document for reparation and property division, and then went to city hall to submit the divorce papers, finalizing our divorce.
Relieved, I exchanged final words with John. “Glad we don’t have to divide property.” “What are you saying? I’m the one who benefits from that.
By the way, do you even have assets after paying me reparation? Susan will also claim damages. She mentioned charging you for the wedding expenses.”
“That’s impossible.
I’m marrying Susan. She can’t claim that. We’re divorced now, so there should be no problem.” “Still living in a fantasy.
You committed marriage fraud. You had a wedding while still married. You think Susan still believes you?” “Marriage fraud?
That’s ridiculous. Susan will believe me.” “Believe that if you want. I heard from Susan directly.”
“Also, weren’t the guests at your wedding paid actors?
You still owe them.” “You knew about that. I haven’t paid them yet. What does it matter to you?
You could have just taken property division and been better off.” “That’s what I wanted to tell you. Even if we had divided property, you would have benefited more.”
“What are you talking about, poor woman? Your family is poor and you only make $15,000 a year, right?
Even if you got a raise, it would be barely $20,000. You don’t have any property.” “You keep calling me poor, so I thought you might be mistaken. Yes, my salary is indeed $15,000.
But you know I work for a foreign company, right? It seems you have no interest in me.”
“But I became a director of the American branch. It’s not $15,000 per year, but per month.” “$15,000 per month?
So that’s an annual income of $1.8 million.” “You’re still bad with numbers. How do you manage to keep a job? It’s $180,000 a year.” “$180,000?
That can’t be true.”
“Of course, I haven’t had the chance to spend such an amount. So, I’ve been saving it for the future. The savings from before our marriage aren’t part of the property division.
But there’s still a considerable amount since our marriage. So, you could have received half of that in the property division.”
“You were my destiny after all. I’ll get the divorce papers corrected.” “Are you okay?
After all the contempt, you think I’d gladly undo the divorce if you have that much money?” “You don’t need to claim reparation, right? It’s just a small amount for you.” “He who laughs at one cent will weep for one cent. This reparation is for the mental anguish you caused me.
I’d like to claim more, honestly.”
“And since we’ve made it official, make sure to pay it even in installments.” “I’ll be penniless.” “Also, don’t go back to that apartment. Your belongings should have been moved to your parents’ house by now. You thought I had few belongings, but that was because I had already moved most of them.”
“Were you that indifferent to me?
I can’t have so little.” “So, I have to go back to my parents’ house. They don’t know anything yet, do they? Let me explain.” “Don’t say anything.
I’ve already told them everything. It’s only right to explain why we’re divorcing. Oh, and your father said, ‘Don’t ever step over our threshold again.’”
“So, I have nowhere to go.” He collapsed, and I left the cafe.
Later, I heard he caused trouble at the police station. Despite my advice, he went back to the apartment. He sat there aimlessly in the empty apartment until the manager called the police, and he was taken away.
I’m not sure if it was for obstructing public duties, trespassing, or the falsified divorce papers. Eventually, his parents took responsibility for him. After talking with me and learning about Susan, they decided that apologizing and paying damages to Susan’s family came first.
They went to Susan’s house to apologize, kneeling in front of her family. They settled everything without pressing charges for marriage fraud, even paying for the wedding expenses. I had expected them to sue, so it was disappointing they didn’t.
So, I decided to pursue legal action against him for forging the divorce papers. John offered a settlement, but I didn’t withdraw the lawsuit. I didn’t want him to think everything could be solved with money.
I wanted him to be convicted and understand the gravity of his actions, even if it cost time and money. I left everything to my lawyer, so it wasn’t too burdensome for me. Even though it took time, John was exposed for his actions and the marriage fraud at his company.
He couldn’t stay there anymore. After being detained by the police and subsequently absent without leave, he was eventually fired. He ended up living at his parents’ home, working all day at a relative’s construction company.
His father took all his earnings, leaving him with no income. I thought his parents wouldn’t abandon him, but they were stricter than I expected. They paid my reparation and Susan’s compensation, planning to make him work like a horse until he repaid everything.
He lived in a shed-like place with no electricity, receiving only $5 per day for food deducted from his salary. They planned to disown and kick him out once he repaid everything. A harsh fate after years of hard work.
I was offered a position at the head office abroad, so I moved overseas after the divorce was finalized. I worried John might come to me for help or harbor resentment, but moving abroad alleviated those concerns. I thought work would be my partner for a while, but soon I found a new relationship.
I’m now dating a foreign executive at our head office, and I’m pregnant with plans to marry soon. I told him everything about my past and my ex-husband, and he’s understanding. I’ll take maternity leave and plan to return to work later, supported by him.
He’s enthusiastic about taking paternity leave and co-parenting, showing a different cultural perspective. After being tormented by my ex-husband, I finally feel I’m grasping true happiness and confidence in building the happy family I’d always dreamed of. Many suffer due to selfish spouses, and while divorce isn’t always the right choice, enduring silence isn’t a virtue.
It’s important to know that honest discussions can lead to resolutions, and sometimes divorce is a necessary option.
