AITA for refusing to help my parents financially after they paid for my brother’s wedding but not mine?

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I’m (29F) the oldest child in my family. A few years ago, I got married to my now-husband. When we were planning our wedding, I asked my parents if they’d be able to help financially – not pay for the whole thing, just some support.

They told me they couldn’t afford it and said they believed in kids being independent and paying for their own weddings. I accepted that, and my husband and I paid for everything ourselves. It was tight, but we made it work.

What happened next changed everything…
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